Comments such as “Why is he with her?”, or “I can’t believe she’s dating him!” usually stem from ignorance and deep seated jealousy. Although interracial relationships are more accepted today than they were 45 years ago there are some stereotypes and stigmas that survived the dark ages of long ago.
Dating Asian women has been met with mixed feelings by many within Western countries because native women are feeling pushed to the side and neglected. For centuries western men have been drawn to the mystery surrounding Asian women. They admire her natural beauty, traditional values, strong commitment to family and community and demure personality. The divorce rate within relationships where one mate is of Asian descent tend to be much lower than the national average. There is a saying related to Asian women that if she really loves you she will love you forever regardless of your financial status or social status.
It is this quality of loyalty that men are also attracted to in Asian women. Men want to feel wanted. They want to feel like someone is depending on them for direction and guidance and to take the lead in financial matters. This helps a man reaffirm his manhood and his worth. Asian women seem to be adept at helping the man feel masculine and strong. She does not view being submissive and supportive to her partner as a sign of weakness but rather as a crown of glory and honor. This has a lot to do with cultural traditions and it is an attitude that, in large part, Western women just don’t share.
Besides the psychological and emotional appeal men are also attracted to the exotic beauty of the Asian woman. Her demure personality is reflected in the innocence of her smile, the long black silken hair, and the fragile petite frame. Men feel chivalrous when around them like they must offer protection and support and this enhances their masculinity. The cultural diversity is also appealing and even sexy and when dating Asian women presents a perfect conversation piece to draw two individuals together. Many men see it as a challenge to explore the differences and sometimes the similarities in culture.
Asian women are known to show incomparable loyalty to their mates and their relationships. This dedication and trust helps to extract the most desirable qualities in their partners and further strengthen bonds. They are great homemakers and do not feel that taking care of a home constitutes menial slave labor.
To sum it up, men are interested in dating Asian women because it reminds them of the way women used to be. Asian women, although educated and ambitious, still fiercely guard their traditional beliefs and live by them. It is this unwavering loyalty that makes them so desirable in the eyes of men.